When your guests are nuts!
February 8th 2011 13:24
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Cooking for kooks
Link: www.holidaycozumel.com/
I cook for people because I like people, mostly, but sometimes" I seem to be happier when they're not around" (C. Bukowski). Really, it's a case of who the people are. Family are always fine, I know what to expect, that there will be a lot of laughs, much fine drink and a real appreciation for the food and efforts associated with it's production, and it IS a production.
We recently spent some time in Cozumel, Mexico with friends who have a spot on the beach. All I need to say is that these folks are really good company. Our time together is easy, the laughter flows, the drinks flow in moderation, and the snorkling is superb. Most importantly, after the fact that our five kids all get along really well (the opposite is a potential deal breaker), is that they love to eat and they have tried every little corner stall and every upscale resto on the island(which is not huge...) and are an excellent source of information/suggestions as well as being great dinner companions. So, this is the good side of breaking bread with people other than those around your family table.
In my line of work which is foodservice consulting and catering/instruction, I am often working with/for clients who are demanding and have high expectations or very particular requirements and requests. Before you start with the "suck it up buttercup" talk, I am aware that this is part and parcel of being in the foodservice industry and I usually like the challenges associated with it. That being said, I do run into clients who are demanding for the sake of being demanding, who thrive on being nasty or controlling because something else in their lives is not within the scope of their control, I assume.
Everyone has different tastes, I get that.
Some people have very specific dietary requirements, understood. Some people are worriers and can't help but fuss over every the details, I get that too. It's the other, albeit small, group of nasty folks who really get me. They will start with a great idea for a party, reception or cocktail event and then poopoo every menu suggestion as not being "right" until many meetings down the road you realize, they want their mum's Thursday night dinner, but for more people. This is fine, but get to the point! The hardest part of cooking for kooks is realizing that they will make you crazy if you don't step back. The ability to cut through the crazy and see what is really being said is essential! Come to think of it, I should charge $85/hour for this as it's pretty good marriage counselling.
In my line of work which is foodservice consulting and catering/instruction, I am often working with/for clients who are demanding and have high expectations or very particular requirements and requests. Before you start with the "suck it up buttercup" talk, I am aware that this is part and parcel of being in the foodservice industry and I usually like the challenges associated with it. That being said, I do run into clients who are demanding for the sake of being demanding, who thrive on being nasty or controlling because something else in their lives is not within the scope of their control, I assume.
Some people have very specific dietary requirements, understood. Some people are worriers and can't help but fuss over every the details, I get that too. It's the other, albeit small, group of nasty folks who really get me. They will start with a great idea for a party, reception or cocktail event and then poopoo every menu suggestion as not being "right" until many meetings down the road you realize, they want their mum's Thursday night dinner, but for more people. This is fine, but get to the point! The hardest part of cooking for kooks is realizing that they will make you crazy if you don't step back. The ability to cut through the crazy and see what is really being said is essential! Come to think of it, I should charge $85/hour for this as it's pretty good marriage counselling.
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